Saturday, June 30, 2007

"Multiple Doorways" Theory


I've been thinking about philosophy of ministry a lot lately - I'm seeking a church to serve at vocationally, after all! In the process of answering questions and working through issues, it seems like I regularly end up making the "multiple doorways" speech. Some of you have heard this before (Jered!), but if not I hope you'll find the concept encouraging. As always, I welcome your criticism too.

First, a little history.

There was a time in America when a significant part of the unchurched population would simply wake up some Sunday morning and think, "I need to go to church today". The reasons varied - young children, nostalgia, conviction, family ties, etc... - but the end result was the same. The primary way that local churches welcomed strangers, then, was by making their facilities and people as hospitable as possible...

As a result, churches began posting signs pointing to the restrooms and the nursery. They put out lighted signs in the front lawn of the building to advise people of times of service. They made sure their phone number was in the local phone book anywhere possible. They listed in the local paper's "church section". They trained "greeters" to meet people politely and to hand them a "bulletin" informing these visitors about the nature of the church, the day's activities, etc... They often even tried to make the decor of the building appealing and comfortable.

All of this happened predicated upon a cultural understanding that people would just randomly decide to visit local churches out of the blue. [Please don't remind me here that it was the LORD's prompting - I understand that, but please allow that cultural factors have a role, too.] And they did, often in large numbers.

This "success" prompted strong "visitation" ministries. Sometimes people would randomly stroll through neighborhoods and knock on doors, inviting folk to their church services. Other times people would make sure to visit every visitor to their church services - returning the courtesy, if you will. And all of this worked very well.

Now mind you, there's nothing inherently Biblical about what I've just described, nor is there anything unBiblical about it either. It's just a method that fit a cultural context, all for His glory. If you doubt me, think for a moment about (for example) Martin Luther - do you think he did any of this? Or go back to Ignatius, perhaps - do you suspect he led a vibrant "visitation" ministry? Really, not even the pages of the New Testament indicate anything quite like this set up. But that doesn't make it wrong, bad, or otherwise - it's just a culturally appropriate method to come along side of God's work in a given community. Good stuff, frankly.

But ... (you knew there was one coming, right?) does this same cultural context exist today? In large part, the answer is a resounding "No!". In some areas of the country, and especially in certain demographics, the same cultural context exists and therefore the same methods may well still work, too. But by and large, that cultural context is now gone.

Don't believe me? Tell me, then, what's the first thing you think when two well-dress total strangers knock on your front door? If you're an average American, you either think a) Jehovah's Witnesses, or b) Mormons. Perhaps you think political pollsters or sales people, but regardless you most likely don't think happy thoughts!

Or how about this question: How many unchurched, random visitors have you had at your church meetings in the last six months? Not Christians looking for a new church. Not unchurched people who were invited or are attending because of some special event. People that just woke up and thought, "I need to go to church today" and happened to chose yours. Again, if yours is a normal American church, the answer is "very few".

So what's a church to do? Doom and gloom prevails, right? Wrong.

To put it simply, we need multiple doorways into the life of the church. Where once there was one primary doorway (the front door), there must now be multiple (metaphorical) "doorways" for people to contact, inspect, observe, and (hopefully) become a part of the life of the local church.

Some examples first, then a little theory. If your local community is into a given sport, you should find a way of cooperating - softball team, golf outings, signs for the local football team, whatever. Or how about a MOPS group (Mothers Of Pre Schoolers)? What about music - do you have talented folk in your midst that could play the local scene? Recycling is a great option - maybe use your facilities as a drop off for CFLs. The list goes on and on ...

But I must make an important point about theory and practice here:

I am not suggesting we do these things simply as a method!

I am suggesting that we find whatever passions the LORD has set in our hearts and pursue those with a holy fire. If the LORD gave a certain group of people in a given local church a passion about the environment, we need to encourage them to act upon that passion in the name of Christ. Not in a pushy, holier-than-thou way, but in a way that acknowledges the very Creator of these passions.

So let's run with the environmental example. Say 10 people in your church are passionate about protecting the LORD's creation. We must find a way of allowing them to pursue that passion as a group for the express purpose of His glory. If they want to help clean up highway litter, we encourage them to do so and perhaps find the phone number to call to make it happen. If they want to volunteer at the local recycling center, we stir them on to do that. Ideally, we encourage them to think of themselves as a team, a family, a group committed to these passions. We teach them to soak their problems in prayer, we admonish them toward becoming better disciples even as we watch them do this (in part) by pursuing their passions.

And this glorifies God.

But it does even more. It will almost inevitably attract others. Some not-yet Christians will share this passion and the LORD will use that to bring them into the life of the church. Others will quietly observe this demonstration of divine passion and pass it along to still others. The end result will be that divine encounters will happen, people will come to know the LORD, and He will be even more glorified!

Sure, there will be mockers. Sure, there are inherent risks. But the alternative is unacceptable - continuing to use methods that no longer fit the cultural context will (and has already, frankly) only move us backwards in the task of coming alongside God's work in our communities.

We talk all the time about changing the methods but not the message. This is how I see that taking place. But it's not just a method - it's an honest attempt to live out the passions that the LORD has hard-wired into each of us. In today's increasingly postmodern world, this level of authenticity is perhaps the only culturally acceptable way of proceeding anyway.

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I'd really love for anyone that can to share how your local church might be living these principles. This is (yet another) opportunity for our resident lurkers to come out and be an active part of the conversation. I'll pick on a few of you by name, to see if we can start a healthy conversation: Jered, Dan, Nick, Ryan - can you hear me?

Hatushili

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

[Note: Ryan emailed these comments to me and I'm posting them here with his blessing.]

What?! Bus ministry isn't cutting edge? ; )-

The methods of a missional/seeker church are just symptoms of a different paradigm. My dad and the spiritual "leaders" of my youth hold that adapting to culture is diluting the Truth with the world (in the carnal sense). When the world is an enemy to be conformed to your mold or condemned to hell, you don't have the mind of Christ. His reputation was worth less to him than sinners. That can't be said of most Baptist [IFB, anyway] and similar assemblies and educational institutions. I have a hard enough time with that individually.

It's a holistic approach at my church. We have two outdoor smoking areas at our church. A visitor-now-attender (we don't have membership at our church) I know first thought, "What kind of church has smoking areas?" The kind of church that welcomes smokers. I think it was Tony Campolo who held a birthday party for a hooker in Hawaii at a diner during the late hours of the night; and the diner owner/manager guy said, "I would go to a church that throws birthday parties for hookers."

I could tell multiple stories and methods about our church that makes the sinner feel comfortable with everything but conviction...

It's not about bringing people into a church but the Church; and it's about bringing the Church to culture. I call it evangelism capital. You have to build into someone's life without the kind of ulterior motive where the audience knows it's just about you achieving something spiritually or winning someone to the cause. They need to see care and concern. We have a guy in our church who was won to Christ because our pastors went to his Saturday night motorcycle races (they are motorcyclists). If it's community groups, chore/help groups, or personal picnics . . . man, it's about building relationships in which you can weave the story of God in you, in relation to culture and time, in relevant ways to their struggles.

I'm not saying the "new" traditional denominations (who would balk at being described as such) don't show love or are of no effect. But who wants to join a club where it's "come as we want you to be" instead of "come as you are"? And who wants to join a fraternity of people who aren't authentic in church? Most churches I know welcome the already-reforming but leave the rest to climb their sycamores.

Ryan in Virginia

Hatushili said...

re: Ryan - I hope you didn't say "It's not about bringing people into a church but the Church" because you thought I meant otherwise. When I say "doorways into the life of the church", it's my way of condensing: give people open access to the local church, in hopes that they will see Christ glorified and that He will draw them to Himself; once a Christ-follower, this new creation now has access to all the blessings of a faithful and passionate local church.

As you can see, it's just a lot easier to say "doorways into the life of the church". I guess I sometimes assume people understand what I mean. Did you?

Hatushili

Anonymous said...

Oh, no, man: I wasn't talking about you. I'm talking about the old guard and their push for attendance. No, I agree with you very much.

Ryan in Virginia

Anonymous said...

I think that once you get people to church you have to be able to keep them interested as well. I totally think that traditional hymns are cool. However, I think that people have to be willing to allow some one to play the drums without thinking that it is sinful. You may have to introduce music that is more upbeat. You definitely need to make sure that some one approaches new guests before they leave the church. Even though I consider myself a loner, I cannot stand to go into a church and leave without any one noticing me. That is totally digusting. By the way, they've got my husband going to church because of the basketball team. That may be a good idea. Also, my pastor is a member of the community association, and attends most of the meetings. This is the first time that a true Bible-believing minister, that I know of, has been a part of this association. Hey, Jesus ate with the publicans. Why not? Also, we have a GED program at our church. The community totally appreciates the idea of our church helping young people to further their education. Mary

Anonymous said...

A while back a young man came to our church. A guy JT and I went to high school with; I believe he was even in JT’s grade. The guy looks like a wild man; had a bigger beard than Stuart’s and mine combined (I know that’s not saying much), long scraggly hair, not the trendiest clothes, LOTS of tattoos and piercings, etc.

However, the guy was completely transparent, in a good way.

(On a side note I have no idea what prompted him to come to our church and Sunday school, he had no friends there and there was nothing special about that particular Sunday.)

Continuing… the man was so transparent that he even felt comfortable enough to answer pastors clearly rhetorical questions during the sermon. Very funny by the way! After the sermon JT, the wild man, and I talked for quite some time and he felt comfortable enough to tell us about his battle with drugs and sex since high school, he mentioned how he is working on getting his life together so he can start coming to church (a comment for a different ranting)… he cussed throughout this conversation. Yes, he actually didn't know any better than to refrain from cussing within the walls of our church... shocking right? Wrong...I found it to be one of the most honest and real conversation I have ever had within the walls of a church building. All masks were down. It was wonderful.

Eventually the man left, JT and I encouraged him to come back we discussed what we could do to stay in contact with him and get him to come back. We haven’t seen the man our heard from him since.

When talking about guiding people through the metaphorical multiple doorways into the church we must make sure they are not revolving doors… this man didn’t stand a chance at our church. He made the first move but we quit the game.

It saddens me that our very aura repels every one around us who doesn’t fit into our cast of what we think a decent human being should be. His arrival at our church should have been a huge cause for celebration, he was really seeking Christ! It wasn't though. To be honest,I don’t think any one mentioned the man’s peircings and tattoos, I don’t think anyone openly condemned his excess of hair, they didn’t have to. He was like a zit on the face of a friend. Everyone can see it but the polite thing to do is to ignore it completely, don’t look at it, and pretend it doesn’t exist ‘till it goes away. He felt this, I felt it for him, he went away… everything went back to normal…

My thoughts are this: like you have said Nathan, this can’t be a “program” thing. We don’t need a program to reach the wildman. We need people who are passionate about him/them and who can relate. Programs tend to stink of poser, and it’s an awful smell to the postmodern. Before the multiple doors can be opened we first need people inside who are accepting, loving, and willing to set aside their personal comforts for the lost and for the glory of God.

Sorry for the depressing comments; I simply haven’t experience the positive models of this theory which you and Ryan have described… I’m jealous :)

Hatushili said...

re: Mary, you said "Even though I consider myself a loner, I cannot stand to go into a church and leave without any one noticing me. That is totally disgusting.

Great point! You, like most (if not all) of my regular readers are a postmodern (whether you use the label or not), and postmoderns hate fake community, or lack of community - no one paying attention to you is about as community-lacking as it gets! We must be welcoming to the stranger, but what does that mean in today's world...

You also made a great point about your husband: "By the way, they've got my husband going to church because of the basketball team. That may be a good idea."

Understatement of the year, Mary! Choosing to engage in your local community instead of just trying to engage it - there's a subtle but important difference there, I think.

I also love the fact that your pastor is involved in the community in a meaningful way. How are people ever going to "see your good works and glorify your Father" (Matt 5:16) if your never actually visible to people?!

Good comments; sounds like your church is more missional than not.

Hatushili

Hatushili said...

re: JB - dude, I feel for you! You hit the nail on the head. "It saddens me that our very aura repels every one around us who doesn’t fit into our cast of what we think a decent human being should be. That's about as anti-Christian as one can get, eh? How in the world do churches get to that point?

Seriously.

Hatushili

Shamgar said...

As Nathan knows I have very strong feelings about this subject. I grew up with very similar views in the past and I am apalled to think of how many I have turned from faith instead of drawing them near. Right now, the 'doorways' concept is central to nearly everything I do. It is, in fact, refreshing to be able to 'get' that God has allowed me to be passionate about things for a reason. Two of the biggest passions I have are for bowling and (wait for it)...Dungeons and Dragons. For many years pastors and church members made me feel guilty because I play a game that I enjoy. Now, in a wonderful turn of events, it is an intentional 'ministry' of my wife and myself. We run several gaming groups and are reaching those that no church I'm aware of will ever be close to. We share a passion with them and respect them for who they are. Our heart breaks for the fact that they are far from Christ, but I have finally come to the realization that my job is not to save them, but rather to be available for however God would use me. We have been only been able to have the tiniest bit of spiritual conversation, but that's ok. Hopefully they see our lives and are drawn to wonder at His creation. Prayerfully we hope that more opportunities may come. I for one believe they will. But, if they don't, then that's ok too. We are doing this for His glory, not ours. It is nice to feel free to do what He has shaped us to do and not feel like it is bad because we are not acting in the strictist confines of the defined church. Many think I'm a bit crazy and they are likely correct, but this is how I feel. What do you think?

Hatushili said...

re: Dan - I for one think you're spot on! Multiple doorways can absolutely include D&D. There are potential pitfalls, to be sure. But there are potential pitfalls with basketball or environmental cleanup or nearly anything else.

We have to start with the presupposition that God gave each of us passions, and that we are designed to pursue those passions for His glory.

My question, Dan, is this - is there are way for this D&D doorway to be more about your local church community and less about you as an individual? That would be ideal, no?

Hatushili

Shamgar said...

And my answer is a whole hearted yes, that is can, and is at least in a few ways, more about the church community as a whole. Three of the players are members of the church as well. Two of them are those who are more connected to the church because of this group. It seems to allow them a connection that is enjoyable and doesn't leave them feeling left out. Also, from speaking with them they feel it is nice to know that service doesn't always have to feel like service, if you understand my meaning. One of them is heavily involved in the church in other ways, but I suspect at least a few of those ways are because it is what they feel they should do as opposed to being what they feel they want to do. Finally, these groups were strategically started, not to aim at the salvation of any one specific person, but rather to aim at being a resource for those in the church and out to see what can be done, what is being done, and where those of the 'outlying' social circles might find a spark of His light. From what has been shared with me it was an interesting discussion that led to some real insight for the pastoral board when this was brought up. Finally, yes I do agree that there can be pitfalls and I do agree that those exist with (nearly) everything. I am still required to be of pure mind and spirit to be useful to His service. I wish I could say that this occurs 100% of the time either in the game or in life, but it doesn't. I am aware of the responsibilities I have in this regard and watch over them praying for eyes of wisdom.

Hatushili said...

re: Dan - thanks for the clarification. My great fear in positing a "multiple doorway" theory is that people will run with it in the sphere of Modernity, ie. make it another "me thing" compartmentalized into some tidy little corner of their existence. That would be a tragedy!

I'm glad to hear that you're seeing this more as a part of community, and more holistically. There's some Postmodern in you yet, I say!

Hatushili

PS: Nick, we're still waiting to hear from you... :)